It's better to have loved and lost..

..than to have never loved at all? I'm still wondering if that's true. It's been almost a month since we miscarried.. again. I'm not sure if it'd be easier just not being able to get pregnant? Or keep losing the pregnancies. I'm sure neither is 'better', because at the end of 9 months, there's still no baby in our arms. I'm not bitter about it, I know God has greater plans for us. Miscarriages run in my family, as well as MANY families. It's nothing new. 

I've been debating whether or not I should be celebrating the short time of pregnancy that I did experience. I don't see why not. A lot of people get uncomfortable when we bring up that nasty 'M' word. But in reality, is it no different than publicly grieving over a lost loved one-who just happened to have a longer time on this earth? Many pro-abortionists would probably disagree, but I believe 100% that each child has God's blessing and a soul from the moment of conception, and as a mother, it's somewhat impossible for me NOT to bond with this little baby, even if I only know of his/her existence for a week. So with public ridicule or not, I am going to celebrate each little life that God blesses us with. And what better way to do so than through photos? :)